How to get your newborn to sleep in a bassinet

You’ve just fed your baby, changed their diaper, rocked them until they’re peacefully snoozing in your arms, and carefully placed them in their bassinet. You tiptoe away, holding your breath—and then, as if on cue, their eyes pop wide open.

You freeze. Your heart sinks. What now?

Sound familiar? If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve been here more than once—don’t worry,  you’re not alone. These are the joys (and challenges) of life with a newborn!

Babies between 0–3 months love to sleep close to the person they adore most—you! And while there’s nothing sweeter than those snuggly moments together, you deserve some solo time, whether it’s for a quick snooze or a relaxing shower, while your baby sleeps peacefully in their bassinet.

Figuring out how to get your newborn to sleep in a bassinet can feel like an uphill climb, but don’t worry—you’ve got this. Newborns are still adjusting to the big, wide world, and with your love and guidance, they’ll soon learn to sleep soundly (and independently) in their bassinet.

So, take a deep breath and be patient with your little one—and with yourself. Let’s dive into why this stage can feel so tricky and, most importantly, how to navigate it with confidence, care, and lots of love.

What to expect

This guide is here to help you, step by step, with practical solutions and a dash of reassurance. Here’s what we’ll cover:

Why bassinet sleep is important

It can be tempting to let your baby sleep in your arms all night. It’s natural and normal natural, and let’s face it—those snuggles are the absolute best. However, encouraging bassinet to sleep slowly is important for both safety and long-term sleep habits. Here’s why:

  • Safety First: Placing your baby on a firm, flat surface with no loose bedding significantly reduces the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). According to the AAP, this is the safest way for babies to sleep during their first year.
  • Independence: Helping your baby get comfortable in their bassinet helps them learn to sleep independently, a skill that will serve them well as they grow.
  • Your rest matters too: With your baby snoozing safely nearby, you can finally catch some well-deserved sleep. Remember, a well-rested parent is better equipped to care for their baby.

Transitioning your baby to a bassinet may feel challenging at first, but understanding the reasons behind their resistance can make all the difference. Let’s explore why your little one might be struggling and how you can help them adjust.

Why your baby might resist the bassinet

It’s no surprise that your baby prefers being held—they’ve spent months nestled snugly in the warmth of your womb, listening to your heartbeat. Transitioning to a bassinet, which feels open and unfamiliar, can take time. Here are some reasons your baby might be struggling:

  1. They crave your warmth and smell: Your arms feel like home to them, offering a level of comfort that’s hard to replicate.
  2. Startle reflex: The Moro reflex can cause sudden movements that wake your baby when they’re placed on a flat surface.
  3. Temperature sensitivity: If the bassinet feels too cold or the room is too warm, it can disrupt their ability to settle.
  4. Missed wake window: Over or under-tiredness can make falling asleep in the bassinet much harder.
  5. Noise or silence: Babies are used to the steady hum of the womb, so a silent or noisy environment can feel unfamiliar.

Friendly reminder: If your baby’s discomfort feels overwhelming, take a deep breath. Babies aren’t resisting the bassinet to frustrate you—they’re just adjusting to life outside your arms. Just take it one step at a time—you’ve got this!

Let's explore some thoughtful tips that can help make this transition feel more manageable and supportive.

Tips to help your newborn sleep in a bassinet

Here are some practical and parent-approved tips to help your newborn feel comfortable and secure in their bassinet, making bedtime smoother for both of you.

1. Create a cozy sleep environment

Think of the bassinet as your baby’s little sanctuary. The cozier and safer it feels, the easier it will be for them to settle.

  • Control the temperature: Keep the room between 68-72°F. Dress your baby in one extra layer than you’d wear, and use a lightweight swaddle or sleep sack for added comfort.
  • Use white noise: A white noise machine can mimic the soothing hum of the womb and drown out sudden household noises.
  • Dim the lights: Darkness signals sleep, so consider blackout curtains or a soft nightlight to create a calming atmosphere.
  • Warm the bassinet: Before placing your baby down, warm the mattress with a hot water bottle (remove it before your baby gets in). This helps ease the transition from your warm arms.

Enhance your baby’s sleep environment with Happy Baby, offering ad-free white noise, lullabies, and soothing sounds to create a calm and cozy atmosphere.

2. Master wake windows

Understanding wake windows—those precious periods between naps—can make a world of difference. For newborns, these are typically 45 minutes to 2 hours.

  • Watch for cues: Yawning, staring off, or rubbing their eyes? It’s time to prepare for a nap.
  • Avoid overstimulation: Keep things calm during the wake window to help your baby wind down smoothly.
  • Adjust as needed: If your baby resists sleep, try shortening or lengthening their wake window by 10-15 minutes to find the sweet spot.

Curious about wake windows for different ages? Check out our blog, Wake Windows for Babies by Age: Tips & Tricks for Better Sleep, to understand how they evolve as your baby grows and discover practical tips for restful naps and nights.

3. Establish a calming bedtime routine

Babies love routines—they help them feel safe and secure. A consistent bedtime routine can work wonders for bassinet sleep.

  • Start with a warm bath: A gentle bath can relax your baby and signal that bedtime is near.
  • Add some soothing touch: A light baby massage with an infant safe oil can calm them further. According to experts, using natural, fragrance-free products such as almond oil is recommended for newborns, as their skin is sensitive to dyes, fragrances, and harsh chemicals. For added safety, opt for oils that are phthalate- and paraben-free to protect delicate skin effectively.
  • Swaddle and cuddle: Swaddling mimics the snugness of the womb, while a cuddle reassures them of your love.
  • Sing or read: A short lullaby or a soothing bedtime story can help transition your baby to sleep.

Important note: Repetition is key. Even if your routine feels ineffective at first, keep at it—it’ll become a comforting signal for your baby over time.

4. Lay them down drowsy but awake

This one can feel tricky at first, but it’s a game-changer for teaching your baby to self-soothe.

  • Practice daily: Start with one nap a day where you lay your baby down calmly but awake.
  • Offer gentle comfort: If they get restless, try patting their back or softly "shushing" them.
  • Celebrate progress: Even a few extra minutes of independent sleep is a win!

Curious about how your baby's sleep habits evolve? Read our blog, Sleeping Through the Night: How Baby Sleep Develops, to learn more.

5. Manage reflux and startle reflex

Some babies wake due to discomfort from reflux or sudden movements caused by the startle reflex.

  • For reflux: Keep your baby upright for 20-30 minutes after feeding, and burp them well. A slight incline in the bassinet (following safety guidelines) can also help.
  • For startle reflex: Swaddling is your best friend here. A snug swaddle can prevent those jerky movements from waking your baby. Remember not to swaddle too tightly around the hips to ensure healthy hip development.

These adjustments may take time, but they can significantly improve your baby’s comfort in the bassinet.

6. Familiarize your baby with the bassinet

Let your baby get to know their bassinet during awake times. This helps them feel more comfortable and secure in the space.

  • Place them in the bassinet for short, supervised periods while they’re awake.
  • Use a swaddle or sleep sack with your scent to provide familiarity.

7. Be patient and consistent

Transitioning your baby to sleeping in a bassinet takes time and patience. Your baby is learning, and every small step counts.

  • Stick to the routine: Repetition helps your baby associate the bassinet with sleep.
  • Celebrate wins: Whether it’s a longer nap or a smoother bedtime, acknowledge the progress.
  • Trust the process: Some days will be harder than others, but consistency will pay off.

Happy Baby helps you stay consistent by providing personalized tips for building successful sleep habits.

If your little one still resists the bassinet, don’t worry—there are other approaches to try. Let’s explore what you can do when sleep struggles persist.

What if they still won’t sleep?

If your baby still struggles to settle in the bassinet, don’t worry—this is more common than you might think. Sometimes, it’s just about finding the right approach or identifying what might be causing the resistance. Here are a few steps to consider:

  • Reevaluate the routine: Is bedtime too early or too late? Observe your baby’s wake windows and sleepy cues. An overtired or undertired baby may resist sleep more. Experiment with small adjustments to your routine to find what works best for your little one.
  • Create a familiar environment: Spend time during the day putting your baby in the bassinet while awake. This can help them feel more comfortable and less resistant when it’s time for sleep.
  • Seek medical advice: If your baby seems uncomfortable or cries excessively, reflux or other health concerns could be at play. Consult your pediatrician to rule out medical issues.
  • Consider expert help: If nothing seems to work, reaching out to a sleep consultant or using apps tailored for newborn sleep can provide personalized guidance. These resources are designed to offer strategies that suit your baby’s unique needs.

Friendly reminder: If you’re feeling exhausted, lean on your support system—your partner, a friend, or even a trusted app like Happy Baby. Asking for help isn’t a weakness; it’s smart parenting. 

If your baby’s resistance to sleep coincides with new developmental changes, it might be a regression. Learn more in our blog: Sleep regression: Why isn't my baby sleeping anymore?

Patience is key. Every baby is different, and with time, persistence, and plenty of love, you’ll find a solution that works for both of you.

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Short & Sweet

Helping your newborn adjust to sleeping in a bassinet is a journey. Some nights will feel like small victories, while others might feel like setbacks—but both are part of the process.

Parenthood is a rollercoaster, full of sleepless nights and moments of wonder. Remember: you’re doing an amazing job. Every cuddle, every rock, every soothing word is a step toward helping your baby feel secure and loved. Take breaks when you need to, lean on loved ones, and remind yourself that your baby will eventually sleep soundly in their bassinet.

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FAQ - Everything else you should know

1. Why won’t my newborn sleep in their bassinet?

2. How long does it take to get a baby used to a bassinet?

3. Can I use white noise for my baby?

4. What if my baby prefers sleeping with me?

5. When should I consult a pediatrician about sleep struggles?

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  2. https://www.aap.org/en-us/advocacy-and-policy/aap-health-initiatives/child_death_review/Pages/Safe-Sleep.aspx
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